Ok first off thanks for the reply Christa it was sweet!

I don't know just how I pulled it off but basically it looks as though I have an open invitation to work at Durham Contact Centre lol. I e-mailed the lady who hired me and let her know of my situation and I am welcome in the next training class - or even the one after that.....wow!

I have to run upstairs and ask my brother if he will help me carry my new free bed into the house when my aunt helps me pick it up....thanks to rox for finding that for me

I am still struggling to find a place to live but I have a potential spot in a bachelor basement apartment in my aunts friends house.

Trying still to not be angry with my mom because I know that she ultimatley would have let me however, I felt very unwanted like I was an intrution or something.

whatever

from my perspective....I hope this all comes together